Give me some advice please
Posted: Wed Sep 17, 2008 11:03 pm
Hi guy's,
I really need your help on this one, please give me some advice on what could be a life changing decision.
I've suspected for some time now that my girlfriend has been seeing another man. The usual signs: Phone rings, I answer, caller hangs up. She has started going out 'with the girls' a lot recently although when I ask which girls, it is always "just some friend from work, you don't know them." I always look out for her taxi coming home, but she always comes walking up the driveway as I hear a car setting off...as if she had exited the car 'round the corner. Why? Is it not a taxi? I once picked her mobile up just to see what time it was and she went berserk and screamed that I should never touch her phone again and why I was checking up on her?
Anyway, I have never directly approached the subject with my girlfriend. I now think deep down I just didn't want to know the truth, but last night she went out again and I decided to check on her. I decided I was going to hide behind my car which would give me a view of the whole street so I could see which car she gets out of. It was whilst crouched behind my car that I noticed rust around my rear wheel arch.
So should I take it into a garage or should I buy some stuff from the local halfords and try to repair it myself? The cost of garage's nowadays are extortionate.
I really need your help on this one, please give me some advice on what could be a life changing decision.
I've suspected for some time now that my girlfriend has been seeing another man. The usual signs: Phone rings, I answer, caller hangs up. She has started going out 'with the girls' a lot recently although when I ask which girls, it is always "just some friend from work, you don't know them." I always look out for her taxi coming home, but she always comes walking up the driveway as I hear a car setting off...as if she had exited the car 'round the corner. Why? Is it not a taxi? I once picked her mobile up just to see what time it was and she went berserk and screamed that I should never touch her phone again and why I was checking up on her?
Anyway, I have never directly approached the subject with my girlfriend. I now think deep down I just didn't want to know the truth, but last night she went out again and I decided to check on her. I decided I was going to hide behind my car which would give me a view of the whole street so I could see which car she gets out of. It was whilst crouched behind my car that I noticed rust around my rear wheel arch.
So should I take it into a garage or should I buy some stuff from the local halfords and try to repair it myself? The cost of garage's nowadays are extortionate.
Dear MR Black
